Questions Caregivers Ask

You’re not the only one asking…

When you're caring for someone with prostate cancer, questions show up at 2 a.m., in parking lots, and while folding laundry. This page is a place for real caregiver questions — and real, honest answers.

If you're wondering something, chances are... someone else is too. You’re not alone in this. 🌻🌻🌻

📘 The Book Is Coming Soon
Standing Beside Him: Caregiver’s Guide will be available soon in print and eBook.

In the meantime, I’ll continue sharing free tools and honest answers right here — because caregivers need support now, not later.

Whether you're in the thick of treatment, living with long-term effects, or just trying to catch your breath — you’re not alone here.

🌿 Q: How do I help without taking over?
A: It’s a tough balance — wanting to be supportive without making him feel like he’s lost control. Start by offering, not directing.
Try saying, “Would it help if I…?” instead of “You need to…”

🔹 Use this tool in the Free Tools section: Anchor Thought Builder
🔹 More on this in Standing Beside Him: Caregiver’s Guide (Chapter 2 – Getting the Diagnosis)

Questions and Answers

🌿 Q: What if I feel invisible in this journey?
A: So many caregivers feel this and never say it out loud. You’re showing up every day, but it can feel like no one sees what you’re carrying. Please know: what you’re doing matters. And you matter.

🔹 Use this tool in the Free Tools section: Coping When You Feel Powerless – Journaling Prompt
🔹 More on this in Standing Beside Him: Caregiver’s Guide (Chapter 7 – What About Me?)

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Gentle questions. Honest answers.

From one caregiver to another —
you’re not alone here.

🌿 Q: How do I stay grounded when everything feels out of control?
A: When everything around you feels chaotic, one small step is to create an anchor thought — a short, calming phrase you repeat to yourself when emotions rise. It won’t fix everything, but it can help you breathe.

🔹 Use this tool in the Free Tools section: Anchor Thought Builder
🔹 More on this in Standing Beside Him: Caregiver’s Guide (Chapter 6 – When You Feel Powerless)