✨ Welcome - You’re in the Right Place

If someone you love is facing prostate cancer, and you’ve suddenly found yourself trying to be strong for both of you… this site was created for you.

I’m Debra Othman — a spouse-turned-caregiver — and I know how disorienting this can feel. Standing Beside Him is more than just a book; it’s a place to find calm, clarity, and comfort as you walk through diagnosis, treatment, survivorship, or uncertainty beside someone you love.

This space is here to support partners, spouses, and caregivers with free printable tools, quiet encouragement, and practical help that’s rooted in lived experience.

Here’s where to begin:
👉 Download a Free Tool or Checklist – No sign-up required. Just thoughtful caregiver resources to make your next steps a little easier.
👉 Learn About the Book – See what’s inside and how it might support you.
👉 Reach Out If You Need To – I’d be honored to hear from you.

You don’t have to hold all of this alone. Take a deep breath… then take whatever you need.

🧭 Quick Start Guide:

  1. Download a Free Worksheet or Prompt
    Visit the Free Tools page to explore printable checklists, journaling prompts, and reflection pages for caregivers. No sign-up required — just tools that support real moments.

  2. Want to Know When New Tools Are Added?
    Sign up here to be notified when new caregiver resources or book updates are released. I only email when there’s something truly helpful to share.

  3. Looking for Something Specific?
    If there’s a type of tool, script, or page that would help — request one here. I’m honored to create what you need.

  4. Curious Why I Built This?
    Read more about my story here. I’m not a nurse or therapist — just a partner who walked beside someone with prostate cancer and needed a guide that didn’t exist.

🌻 A Final Word
Whatever brought you here today, I’m so glad you came.
Caregiving can feel invisible — but I promise: you’re not.

Welcome.